Ehhhh ok so i walk down the hallway, down the wings, and across the street to get to my classes, and seriously it seems like tonsil hockey is the big sport around here. Like seriously im shocked pple dont get some kind of sexually transmitted disease by the way they kiss around here. Ok well kissin isnt the issue here, its the fact tht everywhere i turn people seriously seem to be OVERLY connected at the mouth.
I find it hilarious when there's a couple kissing right before a class period. They seriously take wat seems like HOURS just kissing...i mean come on, IT ONLY A FREAKIN PERIOD!!! Grow up a little bit! Being a senior, i see that this whole tonsil hockey is done mostly between freshmens and sophmores!!! Maybe it may seem cool and all that you got a girl/boy friend, but there's a line between being cute and being TRASHY!!!!!! over doing it = TRASHY!!! kind of unactractive if you ask me.
Wow and wat is just amazing is me going to my locker (the corner of 70 wing) and there's seriously a couple pretty much against my locker making out to the EXTREME!!!! its shocking im actually able to open up my locker! lol! but wats even more amazing is that i arrive to my locker, politely ask em to move so i can open my locker, AND THEY JUST SERIOSULY CONTINUE MAKING OUT RIGHT NEXT TO ME!!! I seriously feel like im in the middle of it all...pretty gross.
Dont get the idea that im anti-couple or against kissing or watever...psh remember i got a boyfriend too. But im jusst greatly amazed how pple take PDA to the EXTREME!!! REMEMBER...ITS TRASHY WHEN ITS OVER DONE.
I guess my opinion about this topic isnt just the fact tht i believe its trashy...idk maybe kinda sad in a sense. No im definately not jealous, but at times when i see couple kissing or holding hands, kinda makes me sad tht ryan's no longer at MHS. i dont have my bf to hold hands with while walking down the hall...he been going to the University Of the Pacific now. Kinda lonely..............................ANY WHO, got alittle off course.
Pretty much i wanna hear other pple's opinion about how they feel bout this make out session. Again, im ok with PDA, but there's seriously a line being being cute and being trashy! Just imagine how other's perceive you...im sure im not the only tht thinks this way.
---lexis
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
JUST BEIN' REAL!!!! --lexis fernandez
We've been in this class for a week, and throughout the week when we'd present our writing, i noticed how most females in the class seemed to be hurt by a male in their past. so here's my opinion bout it...(PLZ FEEL FREE TO COMMENT ON IT, ID DEFINATLEY LOVE TO HEAR ( OR RATHER READ) YOUR INPUT.
Many of us often listen to friends (especially females) who complain, are unhappy, or who have been hurt in a past relationship. Now i must first apologize to those who have been in these situations, especially because of the fact that i myself haven't been a victim of your past. I feel great sympathy for all you brave females (and possibly you few males) who open up about your past, especially when its an unfortunate event. It does take much courage to allow yourself to open and express yourself...so props to you!!!
However the question i ask the females who complain or are unhappy in their relationship is why deal with it? Why deal or continue to put up with a relationship you often complain about, especially if it brings much pain to yourself? Why not protect yourself and remove yourself from the situation? I listen to those of you who seem to hold anger and bitterness towards a male who has hurt you. But instead of creating these harsh feelings towards him, why not look at this situation as a lesson learned? KEEP IN MIND THAT YOUR ONLY A TEENAGER-- YOU LIFE ISNT OVER BECAUSE OF A STUPID GUY NOR IS IT DESTROYED. YOU HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TO FIND "THE ONE"...SO DON'T SWEAT OVER IT! Again i apologize if it sounds harsh, but instead of looking down at the event, realize that you can definatley grow off of it and thrive for a better future for yourself. Yes you've experienced a broken heart, but look at the glass half full--you now know wat you dont want in a male. With this view, you only refine the characteristics you look for in a partner and next time it'll be a step higher. Let's not forget the absolute fact that although you may be hurt from this battle wound to the heart, it only makes you a stronger females (which by the way, im sure guys definatley look for in any female).
Yes some of you may attack me with my own words that "i havent experienced this unfortunate event" so how would i know right? We'll I'd like to let you know that i don't falsely believe my relationship is perfect, that i am a character in a fantasy story with a happpy ending. Although i do enjoy writing about event with my boyfriend of two years (which i guess to most of you guys is eternity), i tend to be a realist about our relationship. I am not blinded with lust and a fanstay romance. I do live each moment however, so i am definately happy where im at. Just acknowledge the fact that i am one who takes a step back from the situation and see from ALL points of view. YOU SHOW TRY IT. Oddly i find myself being an advocate for females to be strong, especially when a male holds you down. However, most of my male friends can vouch for me when i admit that i can easily connect with a male on a friend level. So please don't think I'm ANTI-boys! tht'd actually be silly of you.
PLZ FEEL FREE TO COMMENT. =]
THNX!!!!!
---LEXIS
Many of us often listen to friends (especially females) who complain, are unhappy, or who have been hurt in a past relationship. Now i must first apologize to those who have been in these situations, especially because of the fact that i myself haven't been a victim of your past. I feel great sympathy for all you brave females (and possibly you few males) who open up about your past, especially when its an unfortunate event. It does take much courage to allow yourself to open and express yourself...so props to you!!!
However the question i ask the females who complain or are unhappy in their relationship is why deal with it? Why deal or continue to put up with a relationship you often complain about, especially if it brings much pain to yourself? Why not protect yourself and remove yourself from the situation? I listen to those of you who seem to hold anger and bitterness towards a male who has hurt you. But instead of creating these harsh feelings towards him, why not look at this situation as a lesson learned? KEEP IN MIND THAT YOUR ONLY A TEENAGER-- YOU LIFE ISNT OVER BECAUSE OF A STUPID GUY NOR IS IT DESTROYED. YOU HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TO FIND "THE ONE"...SO DON'T SWEAT OVER IT! Again i apologize if it sounds harsh, but instead of looking down at the event, realize that you can definatley grow off of it and thrive for a better future for yourself. Yes you've experienced a broken heart, but look at the glass half full--you now know wat you dont want in a male. With this view, you only refine the characteristics you look for in a partner and next time it'll be a step higher. Let's not forget the absolute fact that although you may be hurt from this battle wound to the heart, it only makes you a stronger females (which by the way, im sure guys definatley look for in any female).
Yes some of you may attack me with my own words that "i havent experienced this unfortunate event" so how would i know right? We'll I'd like to let you know that i don't falsely believe my relationship is perfect, that i am a character in a fantasy story with a happpy ending. Although i do enjoy writing about event with my boyfriend of two years (which i guess to most of you guys is eternity), i tend to be a realist about our relationship. I am not blinded with lust and a fanstay romance. I do live each moment however, so i am definately happy where im at. Just acknowledge the fact that i am one who takes a step back from the situation and see from ALL points of view. YOU SHOW TRY IT. Oddly i find myself being an advocate for females to be strong, especially when a male holds you down. However, most of my male friends can vouch for me when i admit that i can easily connect with a male on a friend level. So please don't think I'm ANTI-boys! tht'd actually be silly of you.
PLZ FEEL FREE TO COMMENT. =]
THNX!!!!!
---LEXIS
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